WHAT HAPPENS IN
VEGAS...
by Race dePriest
www.PushButtonDatingSystem.com
Hey, Race dePriest here.
If youʼve read some of my stuff before, glad to
have you here :)
And if youʼre just hearing my name for the first
time, well also glad to have you here :)
Either way, what Iʼm going to share with you in this
report is going to blow you away. Itʼs the result of
the last five years of my life, countless hours of
trial and error, successes and heartaches...
...and literally thousands of women.
Now before you starting making comparisons to
Russell Brand or Wilt Chamberlain, the answer is
no, I havenʼt slept with thousands of women.
But when it comes to choosing hot girls to spend time with, well, Iʼve got it down to a
bulletproof system. Thereʼs not been one evening in the last two years when Iʼve been
lonely or without female companionship when I want it.
And this all happened without going out night after night and opening “set” after “set”.
Thereʼs no need for “mastery” of some complicated pickup methodology, and I havenʼt
had to work to “get calibrated”. Thereʼs no “inner game” work and I havenʼt had to
develop the most awesome lifestyle ever.
Of course, this flies in the face of just about everything I knew about what it took to meet
women.
If youʼd told me that I could have this many women in my life - to date casually or to be
in a relationship with - without me having to “put in the effort” and “get better,” Iʼd have
told you that you didnʼt know anything about what it takes to be good with women.
But one random housemate in Las Vegas would change ALL of that, and pull the curtain
back on a method for meeting women that put more women in my bed in a month than
in the previous two years combined.
And the funny thing is, it only got better from there...
www.PushButtonDatingSystem.com
HOW A GUY WHO PLAYED CHICK ROCK COVER SONGS
CHANGED MY LIFE
Like a lot of guys (and maybe like you) I was taught to think that traditional “pickup” - in
a bar or on the street - was the best way to meet lots of new women.
I didnʼt love doing it, but I bought in to the notion that it was the right way to “hone my
skills”. And secretly, I wanted to prove myself to my buddies... I wanted them to know
that I was a cool guy who could get any girl attracted to him.
At 25 years old, I had just spent a year traveling around the world, and was ready to get
this woman thing “handled”. So, in what I was sure was a stroke of genius, I moved to
Vegas - ground zero for hot girls looking to party. I moved in with my friend Kelly, an
aspiring rockstar, and I set to work on my game.
Things were ok, but not great. I was meeting girls, but I could never get the hottest
ones into me. No matter how hard I tried, it seemed like there was some sort of hidden
“inner circle” that they all belonged to, and I was firmly on the outside.
I did cold approach after cold approach, and despite the monumental effort, life in Vegas
wasnʼt exactly working out as Iʼd planned it.
Kelly, on the other hand... within a few weeks of settling in, he was pulling bonafide 9ʼs
and 10ʼs. I chalked it up to the fact that he was in a band, but it took five shows for me
to realize that there were always
twenty to thirty new hot women in the
audience at every show.
And I love Kelly, but his Goo Goo Dolls
and Third Eye Blind covers just didnʼt
seem good enough to draw that many
new girls week after week.
Over spaghetti and marinara sauce
one evening, I confided to Kelly that I
was, well... jealous of all the girls he
was pulling. I admitted my frustration,
and, completely putting my ego aside,
admitted that I wanted what he had.
Did I have to learn how to play the
guitar?
He flashed one of his trademark million-watt smiles, and as a chuckle grew in him, he
grabbed his laptop from the countertop. What I saw next absolutely blew me away.
www.PushButtonDatingSystem.com
Yours Truly and Kelly in New York City, circa 2009
THE BIRTH OF A LEGEND
Itʼs funny when people call you a “legend”. Iʼve heard it more than once from friends
and clients, but only a few people know how humble the beginnings were.
Back when Kelly logged into MySpace and showed me his inbox on that fateful April
evening, everything clicked, so to speak...
...the hours he spent online, the fact that he seemed to know a little bit about every girl
at his show, the fact that the girls werenʼt just showing up to hear his rendition of “Semi-
Charmed Life...”
Kellyʼs MySpace inbox was absolutely overflowing with messages from hot girls.
“Remember her?” he asked me as he opened a message from a girl whoʼd shacked up
with him two days prior.
“And her?”
“And this one?”
“Oh, and dude THIS one was absolutely crazy.”
It just went on and on... hundreds of women who heʼd met on MySpace, invited to his
shows, and hand-picked to return home for a private “studio session.”
At first I didnʼt want to believe it. This was uncomfortably close to online dating, which
had always struck me as lame. Something that guys who couldnʼt cold approach had to
resort to. I voiced my concern to Kelly. His response?
“But Race, all those hotties who youʼre striking out with at the bar... theyʼre here on
MySpace. And when I send them a message and theyʼre alone in the bedroom with
their defenses down... dude, theyʼre the sweetest girls ever and theyʼre DYING to talk to
a cool guy.”
He had a point.
Now, Iʼd NEVER considered using MySpace to meet women before... setting up a
profile, searching for the women, sending out all those messages, it seemed like a lot of
big barriers to overcome.
Itʼs silly looking back, because if I think about all the things I had to do to meet women in
person - taking a shower, getting myself together, driving to the bar, paying for a few
drinks, steeling myself for that first cold approach... itʼs actually a lot more effort than
sending out a few messages on MySpace.
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But of course, it was something that was
familiar to me, so it didnʼt seem like a lot of
work. Setting up a good profile and thinking
of a clever opening message - those were
unfamiliar and seemed kind of geeky.
As fate would have it, Kelly had worked a
lot of this stuff out already. It didnʼt take
more than twenty minutes to set me up with
a good profile - about as much time as it
takes ready to get to go out every night.
As for the opening messages, it turns out
that he wasnʼt initiating conversations by
just asking girls out to his shows. Attractive
girls get hit up all the time by promoters and
musicians, so he would start out with a little
joke, make a personal connection, and then
invite them out.
He let me copy and paste some of his email
openers, and within an hour of learning of
his secrets, I had mailed ten new women.
The next morning, I had nine replies in my
inbox. I was onboard.
In the thirty days that followed, I had more women come over than Iʼd hooked up with in
the past two years. Following Kellyʼs simple principles, and improving on them with a
little bit of my own ingenuity, I was soon seeing two to three new girls a week.
It quickly became a competition between Kelly and I. Who could come up with an
opener that would have the highest response rate? Who could get the hotter girls to
come over? Could he do it without inviting the girls to one of his shows?
Those months were some of the most fun times in my life, and our house was like Las
Vegasʼs answer to the Playboy Mansion. We began to work facebook too, and it wasnʼt
long before we started getting other guys involved - there were just too many women,
and it was just too easy.
We soon started an anonymous blog under the pen names “Hatch” and “Songbird,” and
word began to spread.
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I’M KIND OF A BIG DEAL
Ok, maybe Iʼm not as big a deal as Ron Burgundy. But my stuff has helped thousands
of men get their first date, lose their virginity, even meet women who theyʼd marry.
You see, I got so good at meeting women on social networking sites that Kelly and I put
pen to paper and popped out a 200-page tome on the subject matter. We launched
Window Shopping For Women in 2007, and itʼs still the de-facto bible on using facebook
and MySpace to meet women. Youʼll find glowing reviews if you Google it.
One of my online openers (I call it the “ex-girlfriend” opener”) became so popular that
dating columnists started writing about it. Needless to say, Iʼve got hundreds of other
tested openers, but itʼs a testament to the popularity of my old system.
The discouraging part is that Iʼm not exactly a lawyer, and when I signed a contract with
my publisher for that book, I didnʼt realize how many of my rights I was giving away. To
this day, Iʼve not made a single penny from the sale of that book. Thousands of sales,
countless lives changes, hundreds of testimonials... and Iʼm not one cent richer.
Itʼs kind of sad, actually. My contract said that I would get paid after expenses, and
while my publisherʼs not a bad guy, he managed to find a lot of expenses.
But every cloud has a silver lining, and in the years since writing Window Shopping, two
things have happened:
• Iʼve been running a private forum, with over 4500 posts of tested material from
guys whoʼve been using the Window Shopping system
• Iʼve gotten even better at meeting women online :)
You see, there are two profound differences between meeting women online, and
meeting them in real life.
First, everything is slowed wayyyyy down, so you have the time to analyze it,
understand it, and repeat it much more quickly than if you were trying to assimilate it all
in face-to-face interactions.
Second, itʼs incredibly efficient. With tens of thousands of women online, you can
message scores of them at once, try lots of different techniques, and see what works
and what doesnʼt in a way that you just couldnʼt do in person.
As I continued to work towards system 2.0, I committed to trying anything and
everything to see what would work. There was nothing off limits, because I was
determined to make this even better on the second go around. And what I found was
nothing short of groundbreaking.
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FLIPPING SWITCHES AND PUSHING BUTTONS
Itʼs commonly held wisdom that there are core “attraction triggers” that a man should
“flip” in order to be with a woman. Some of these, such as leader of men and protector
of loved ones have their roots in evolutionary biology, and signal “mating value.”
This theory, held to be truth in some circles, doesnʼt account for one teeny tiny little bitty
thing: a womanʼs emotions.
Simply put, different women have different preferences, interests, and personalities.
And while there are some universally attractive traits like leader of men and protector of
loved ones, those traits alone simply cannot give women what they really want:
emotional fulfillment.
Any good relationship youʼve had - whether a 30 minute interaction at the bar, or a 3
year love story - has had at itʼs core a compelling emotional experience.
Perhaps it lifted your woman out of the boredom of her life, and provided some fun
times, or even passion.
Perhaps it was a safe place for a woman - somewhere she could trust and call “home”.
Perhaps it was a neverending source of intrigue and mystery, delighting her with new
revelations on every new date.
We humans are so driven by our emotions that we do things like race cars, jump out of
airplanes, read romance novels, drink champagne and dance on tabletops, just to feel
like we are alive. From an evolutionary perspective, these things are useless and, in
some cases, potentially dangerous. But we do them for the thrill of it.
In fact, weʼre such emotion-seekers that, in most cases, those universally attractive
traits donʼt really matter. Because thereʼs Brad Pitt, then thereʼs everyone else.
In other words, if youʼre not in the top echelon of movie stars, pro athletes, Wall Street
bankers, or Silicon Valley entrepreneurs, then youʼre about the same to her as as any
other guy.
Sure, you can do your part to dress better, get a decent job, and do some cool things in
your spare time. Those things donʼt hurt.
But what the great romantics and seducers in history have all had in common has been
their ability to give women the emotional and romantic experience of a lifetime.
Whether they were wealthy men, like the English poet Lord Byron, or broke as a joke,
like Casanova, these men thought only of how to delight, surprise and enchant the
women in their lives.
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LIKE PICKUP, BUT ON STEROIDS
Viewed through this lens, the process of attracting, connecting with, and becoming
intimate with a woman takes on a whole new meaning.
If youʼve seen the movie Hitch, you probably remember the scene where Will Smith
sends Eva Mendez a walkie-talkie and a scuba suit to ask her out on a date.
Ask a guy whoʼs been studying “pickup” about this and heʼd dismiss it as “beta”
behavior.
But look more closely and you understand the genius of it. Will Smithʼs character has
piqued her curiosity, created a playful dynamic, and sparked her imagination. Was it
absolutely necessary to spend all that money and get so elaborate? No... but it delivers
such an incredible emotional thrill that she couldnʼt help but delight in it.
(And if you want some real insight into the mind of a true ladies man, then consider that
someone as masterful with the fair sex as Hitch would have taken great pleasure in
knowing that heʼd delighted the object of his affection).
In fact, in this one deft move, Will Smithʼs character pushed some critical “buttons”...
• by pressing her curiosity button, he engaged her
• by pressing her playfulness button, he initiated flirtation
• by sparking her imagination, he paved the way for her to become fascinated
Now, think back to the last time you were out at a bar talking to a woman. Do you think
that if you got her emotionally engaged, then got her flirting with you and feeling some
of those butterflies in her stomach, then managed to get her fascinated with you and
stimulated her imagination, youʼd be well on your way?
Iʼd say so.
Taking it two steps further, if you could push her safety button and create trust that
made her want to retreat to your arms, and then you finally pressed her arousal button
and cause desire that set her mind racing and her body on fire, sheʼd be yours.
And after countless of messages, thousands of interactions, and hundreds of women, I
found that by consistently pressing these key five “buttons,” I could take a woman from
zero, to my arms, in no time flat.
The even crazier part? I became so good at online game - at seeing which buttons I
needed to press, and when - that when I finally started going out again, I was able to
pick up women without a second thought. Every single interaction had these five things
happen in it.
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After internalizing this system, I know that if Iʼm out at the bar and I see a woman I want
to meet, itʼs no problem.
But I donʼt go out with the intention of doing pickup. Because honestly, doing it online is
like pickup on steroids. I can copy and paste one of my proven openers, shoot out
twenty messages in ten minutes, and push all five buttons within seven to ten messages
while Iʼm eating cereal or paying my bills.
By the time the date is set, sheʼs so excited to see me that itʼs as if I sent her walkie
talkies, a wetsuit, and two front-row tickets to “that thing she loves”.
All by delivering a predictable, controllable emotional experience. Five simple buttons,
and some copy/paste stuff from the years and years of material Iʼve perfected.
The best part? I have made so many truly amazing connections with incredible girls Iʼd
NEVER have met otherwise. I only choose to see the women who I connect with and
who I actually like, and it has completely leveled the playing field. By the time I decide
to meet up with a girl, I know that weʼre going to get along, have an awesome time, and
that sheʼs really into me.
Itʼs an absolute dating utopia... and everything that most men are actually looking for
when they decide to “get this handled.” You have more girls than you know what to do
with, with very little effort. You get easy access to the girls who are next-to-impossible
to approach at the bar, and whether you want casual fun, or a serious relationship, the
cards are stacked heavily in your favor.
What started as a small experiment one night in Vegas became something that has
taken me around the world (and let me instantly meet up with women wherever Iʼve
traveled), transformed the lives of countless men who read my first book, and spread
widely across the Internet.
End of story, right?
Well, hereʼs where things take a turn for the ironic...
When Window Shopping For Women got big, I started getting messages from a lot of
clients asking me about online dating sites. Match, Yahoo! Personals, Plenty of Fish,
etc. And as I was working on Window Shopping 2.0 - what I now call the Push Button
System - I thought it would make sense to broaden my horizons.
So when I signed up for my first real online dating site - and not a social networking site
like facebook or MySpace - I thought back to that fateful evening in the kitchen with
Kelly, and that thought that ran through my head... “isnʼt online dating for losers?”
Call me a loser if you want... Iʼm back from the mountaintop, and Iʼve got big news for
any man who is single.
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IF IT GOT MENTIONED ON SEX AND THE CITY, IT’S OK
Forget anything youʼve heard about this whole “online dating” thing. Forget the stigma,
and the idea that itʼs embarrassing or lame.
When you know how to play the game right, when youʼre one of the “top dogs” on an
online dating site, you literally get to hand-pick the hottest girls - the same girls who are
intimidating when theyʼre out on a Friday night with a mob of friends, done up like
perfect Barbie dolls, getting swarmed by drunk men who are all eager to take their shot.
And if you prefer hipsters or goth chicks or preppies, well, theyʼre hanging out online
too. 20,000 new members join Plenty of Fish per day (and the site got a shout out on
Sex and The City, so you know itʼs finally socially acceptable to women). I just checked
OKCupid - over 40,000 people are online at this moment. Attractive women are flocking
to these sites in droves, and with every passing month, the sites become more and
more socially acceptable.
So why do I love dedicated online dating sites so much?
1. The girls are pre-qualified.
You know theyʼre single and
looking for a good man, so itʼs
a matter of finding the quality
ones and working some of the
magic Iʼll show you.
2. Your competition is pretty
weak. Most guys have boring
profiles, lousy photos, and
their opener goes something
like “whatʼs up, you look hot,
holla back.” It doesnʼt take
much to stand out, and the
contrast between these guys,
and a cool guy, is striking to
the women receiving the
messages.
3. These girls are, shall we say...
sexually liberated. If thatʼs
your thing too, you should
probably know that 1 in 3 women who meet a guy online have sex on their first date.
Donʼt believe me? Just Google “online dating statistics” and look at the Huffington
Post article (it should be one of the first ones).
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4. If youʼre looking to settle down and find a wifey, the stats are in your favor, too. The
average time from meeting to marriage is 18 months - less than half that of the 42
months it takes couples who meet in the real world to get hitched.
5. Did I mention that these women are dying to meet a cool guy? Check out my inbox
from a two-day period on one of the paid sites:
Thatʼs ten new women in two days... who are all super-engaged, whoʼve read about me
and are interested in getting to know me better (and notice that four of them reached out
and wrote to me first). How are you going to get more efficient than that?
Not going out to clubs. Not with “day game”. Not through your social circle.
Oh and by the way, if youʼre into making a lot of female friends so you can go out to
clubs or have a nice big social circle, this is the easiest way possible to start. I know
that wherever in the world I want to visit, if I can find an online dating site or social
networking site, I can have a group of fun girls waiting to greet me when I get off the
plane.
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I hope none of this sounds like bragging. Itʼs just, as far as I see it and have
experienced it, the truth. And you can have it too.
WHAT HAPPENED IN VEGAS...
...led to more women than I could handle, which led to a blog, which led to a book,
which led to a phenomenon, which led to us this very report.
As I wrote this report, I was speaking with my buddy and business associate Christian.
We were both thinking... “wow, this is kind of excessive.” What if a guy just wants to
settle down with a nice girlfriend?
Well of course, thatʼs way more than possible - itʼs assured.
The system works so well, though, that Iʼve been having too much fun to settle down.
Thereʼs something so rewarding about meeting and attracting new women... and about
getting to know them, bringing them into your life, and having fun times with them.
The material Iʼve put together is like nothing else out there. It is based on thousands
and thousands of interactions, years and years of research, countless client case
studies, and five simple psychological ʻbuttonsʼ that you have to ʻpushʼ when youʼre
getting to know her.
Iʼve been working nonstop on the new Push Button System, and recently released it to a
beta group of fifty guys. On top of everything that Iʼd written into the system, I worked
closely with these fifty guys to ensure that they were able to repeat my successes -
predictably and consistently.
The results are in, and theyʼre awesome. Want to give it a try right now? Head over to
www.pushbuttondatingsystem.com/blog. The next step, and a ton more resources, are
waiting for you there. You can follow my step-by-step, copy/paste instructions and be
ready to start using my system in about twenty minutes (without paying a dime).
This is going to have a PROFOUND impact on your dating life: Way more choice. The
easiest way to “improve your skills”. Zero rejection. The confidence that comes from
knowing that a LOT of women want to see you and spend time with you.
And Iʼm going to walk you through it all so thereʼs no guesswork - youʼll be following
proven, tested strategies... and having a ton of fun. See you over there, my man.
- Race
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VEGAS...
by Race dePriest
www.PushButtonDatingSystem.com
Hey, Race dePriest here.
If youʼve read some of my stuff before, glad to
have you here :)
And if youʼre just hearing my name for the first
time, well also glad to have you here :)
Either way, what Iʼm going to share with you in this
report is going to blow you away. Itʼs the result of
the last five years of my life, countless hours of
trial and error, successes and heartaches...
...and literally thousands of women.
Now before you starting making comparisons to
Russell Brand or Wilt Chamberlain, the answer is
no, I havenʼt slept with thousands of women.
But when it comes to choosing hot girls to spend time with, well, Iʼve got it down to a
bulletproof system. Thereʼs not been one evening in the last two years when Iʼve been
lonely or without female companionship when I want it.
And this all happened without going out night after night and opening “set” after “set”.
Thereʼs no need for “mastery” of some complicated pickup methodology, and I havenʼt
had to work to “get calibrated”. Thereʼs no “inner game” work and I havenʼt had to
develop the most awesome lifestyle ever.
Of course, this flies in the face of just about everything I knew about what it took to meet
women.
If youʼd told me that I could have this many women in my life - to date casually or to be
in a relationship with - without me having to “put in the effort” and “get better,” Iʼd have
told you that you didnʼt know anything about what it takes to be good with women.
But one random housemate in Las Vegas would change ALL of that, and pull the curtain
back on a method for meeting women that put more women in my bed in a month than
in the previous two years combined.
And the funny thing is, it only got better from there...
www.PushButtonDatingSystem.com
HOW A GUY WHO PLAYED CHICK ROCK COVER SONGS
CHANGED MY LIFE
Like a lot of guys (and maybe like you) I was taught to think that traditional “pickup” - in
a bar or on the street - was the best way to meet lots of new women.
I didnʼt love doing it, but I bought in to the notion that it was the right way to “hone my
skills”. And secretly, I wanted to prove myself to my buddies... I wanted them to know
that I was a cool guy who could get any girl attracted to him.
At 25 years old, I had just spent a year traveling around the world, and was ready to get
this woman thing “handled”. So, in what I was sure was a stroke of genius, I moved to
Vegas - ground zero for hot girls looking to party. I moved in with my friend Kelly, an
aspiring rockstar, and I set to work on my game.
Things were ok, but not great. I was meeting girls, but I could never get the hottest
ones into me. No matter how hard I tried, it seemed like there was some sort of hidden
“inner circle” that they all belonged to, and I was firmly on the outside.
I did cold approach after cold approach, and despite the monumental effort, life in Vegas
wasnʼt exactly working out as Iʼd planned it.
Kelly, on the other hand... within a few weeks of settling in, he was pulling bonafide 9ʼs
and 10ʼs. I chalked it up to the fact that he was in a band, but it took five shows for me
to realize that there were always
twenty to thirty new hot women in the
audience at every show.
And I love Kelly, but his Goo Goo Dolls
and Third Eye Blind covers just didnʼt
seem good enough to draw that many
new girls week after week.
Over spaghetti and marinara sauce
one evening, I confided to Kelly that I
was, well... jealous of all the girls he
was pulling. I admitted my frustration,
and, completely putting my ego aside,
admitted that I wanted what he had.
Did I have to learn how to play the
guitar?
He flashed one of his trademark million-watt smiles, and as a chuckle grew in him, he
grabbed his laptop from the countertop. What I saw next absolutely blew me away.
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Yours Truly and Kelly in New York City, circa 2009
THE BIRTH OF A LEGEND
Itʼs funny when people call you a “legend”. Iʼve heard it more than once from friends
and clients, but only a few people know how humble the beginnings were.
Back when Kelly logged into MySpace and showed me his inbox on that fateful April
evening, everything clicked, so to speak...
...the hours he spent online, the fact that he seemed to know a little bit about every girl
at his show, the fact that the girls werenʼt just showing up to hear his rendition of “Semi-
Charmed Life...”
Kellyʼs MySpace inbox was absolutely overflowing with messages from hot girls.
“Remember her?” he asked me as he opened a message from a girl whoʼd shacked up
with him two days prior.
“And her?”
“And this one?”
“Oh, and dude THIS one was absolutely crazy.”
It just went on and on... hundreds of women who heʼd met on MySpace, invited to his
shows, and hand-picked to return home for a private “studio session.”
At first I didnʼt want to believe it. This was uncomfortably close to online dating, which
had always struck me as lame. Something that guys who couldnʼt cold approach had to
resort to. I voiced my concern to Kelly. His response?
“But Race, all those hotties who youʼre striking out with at the bar... theyʼre here on
MySpace. And when I send them a message and theyʼre alone in the bedroom with
their defenses down... dude, theyʼre the sweetest girls ever and theyʼre DYING to talk to
a cool guy.”
He had a point.
Now, Iʼd NEVER considered using MySpace to meet women before... setting up a
profile, searching for the women, sending out all those messages, it seemed like a lot of
big barriers to overcome.
Itʼs silly looking back, because if I think about all the things I had to do to meet women in
person - taking a shower, getting myself together, driving to the bar, paying for a few
drinks, steeling myself for that first cold approach... itʼs actually a lot more effort than
sending out a few messages on MySpace.
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But of course, it was something that was
familiar to me, so it didnʼt seem like a lot of
work. Setting up a good profile and thinking
of a clever opening message - those were
unfamiliar and seemed kind of geeky.
As fate would have it, Kelly had worked a
lot of this stuff out already. It didnʼt take
more than twenty minutes to set me up with
a good profile - about as much time as it
takes ready to get to go out every night.
As for the opening messages, it turns out
that he wasnʼt initiating conversations by
just asking girls out to his shows. Attractive
girls get hit up all the time by promoters and
musicians, so he would start out with a little
joke, make a personal connection, and then
invite them out.
He let me copy and paste some of his email
openers, and within an hour of learning of
his secrets, I had mailed ten new women.
The next morning, I had nine replies in my
inbox. I was onboard.
In the thirty days that followed, I had more women come over than Iʼd hooked up with in
the past two years. Following Kellyʼs simple principles, and improving on them with a
little bit of my own ingenuity, I was soon seeing two to three new girls a week.
It quickly became a competition between Kelly and I. Who could come up with an
opener that would have the highest response rate? Who could get the hotter girls to
come over? Could he do it without inviting the girls to one of his shows?
Those months were some of the most fun times in my life, and our house was like Las
Vegasʼs answer to the Playboy Mansion. We began to work facebook too, and it wasnʼt
long before we started getting other guys involved - there were just too many women,
and it was just too easy.
We soon started an anonymous blog under the pen names “Hatch” and “Songbird,” and
word began to spread.
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I’M KIND OF A BIG DEAL
Ok, maybe Iʼm not as big a deal as Ron Burgundy. But my stuff has helped thousands
of men get their first date, lose their virginity, even meet women who theyʼd marry.
You see, I got so good at meeting women on social networking sites that Kelly and I put
pen to paper and popped out a 200-page tome on the subject matter. We launched
Window Shopping For Women in 2007, and itʼs still the de-facto bible on using facebook
and MySpace to meet women. Youʼll find glowing reviews if you Google it.
One of my online openers (I call it the “ex-girlfriend” opener”) became so popular that
dating columnists started writing about it. Needless to say, Iʼve got hundreds of other
tested openers, but itʼs a testament to the popularity of my old system.
The discouraging part is that Iʼm not exactly a lawyer, and when I signed a contract with
my publisher for that book, I didnʼt realize how many of my rights I was giving away. To
this day, Iʼve not made a single penny from the sale of that book. Thousands of sales,
countless lives changes, hundreds of testimonials... and Iʼm not one cent richer.
Itʼs kind of sad, actually. My contract said that I would get paid after expenses, and
while my publisherʼs not a bad guy, he managed to find a lot of expenses.
But every cloud has a silver lining, and in the years since writing Window Shopping, two
things have happened:
• Iʼve been running a private forum, with over 4500 posts of tested material from
guys whoʼve been using the Window Shopping system
• Iʼve gotten even better at meeting women online :)
You see, there are two profound differences between meeting women online, and
meeting them in real life.
First, everything is slowed wayyyyy down, so you have the time to analyze it,
understand it, and repeat it much more quickly than if you were trying to assimilate it all
in face-to-face interactions.
Second, itʼs incredibly efficient. With tens of thousands of women online, you can
message scores of them at once, try lots of different techniques, and see what works
and what doesnʼt in a way that you just couldnʼt do in person.
As I continued to work towards system 2.0, I committed to trying anything and
everything to see what would work. There was nothing off limits, because I was
determined to make this even better on the second go around. And what I found was
nothing short of groundbreaking.
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FLIPPING SWITCHES AND PUSHING BUTTONS
Itʼs commonly held wisdom that there are core “attraction triggers” that a man should
“flip” in order to be with a woman. Some of these, such as leader of men and protector
of loved ones have their roots in evolutionary biology, and signal “mating value.”
This theory, held to be truth in some circles, doesnʼt account for one teeny tiny little bitty
thing: a womanʼs emotions.
Simply put, different women have different preferences, interests, and personalities.
And while there are some universally attractive traits like leader of men and protector of
loved ones, those traits alone simply cannot give women what they really want:
emotional fulfillment.
Any good relationship youʼve had - whether a 30 minute interaction at the bar, or a 3
year love story - has had at itʼs core a compelling emotional experience.
Perhaps it lifted your woman out of the boredom of her life, and provided some fun
times, or even passion.
Perhaps it was a safe place for a woman - somewhere she could trust and call “home”.
Perhaps it was a neverending source of intrigue and mystery, delighting her with new
revelations on every new date.
We humans are so driven by our emotions that we do things like race cars, jump out of
airplanes, read romance novels, drink champagne and dance on tabletops, just to feel
like we are alive. From an evolutionary perspective, these things are useless and, in
some cases, potentially dangerous. But we do them for the thrill of it.
In fact, weʼre such emotion-seekers that, in most cases, those universally attractive
traits donʼt really matter. Because thereʼs Brad Pitt, then thereʼs everyone else.
In other words, if youʼre not in the top echelon of movie stars, pro athletes, Wall Street
bankers, or Silicon Valley entrepreneurs, then youʼre about the same to her as as any
other guy.
Sure, you can do your part to dress better, get a decent job, and do some cool things in
your spare time. Those things donʼt hurt.
But what the great romantics and seducers in history have all had in common has been
their ability to give women the emotional and romantic experience of a lifetime.
Whether they were wealthy men, like the English poet Lord Byron, or broke as a joke,
like Casanova, these men thought only of how to delight, surprise and enchant the
women in their lives.
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LIKE PICKUP, BUT ON STEROIDS
Viewed through this lens, the process of attracting, connecting with, and becoming
intimate with a woman takes on a whole new meaning.
If youʼve seen the movie Hitch, you probably remember the scene where Will Smith
sends Eva Mendez a walkie-talkie and a scuba suit to ask her out on a date.
Ask a guy whoʼs been studying “pickup” about this and heʼd dismiss it as “beta”
behavior.
But look more closely and you understand the genius of it. Will Smithʼs character has
piqued her curiosity, created a playful dynamic, and sparked her imagination. Was it
absolutely necessary to spend all that money and get so elaborate? No... but it delivers
such an incredible emotional thrill that she couldnʼt help but delight in it.
(And if you want some real insight into the mind of a true ladies man, then consider that
someone as masterful with the fair sex as Hitch would have taken great pleasure in
knowing that heʼd delighted the object of his affection).
In fact, in this one deft move, Will Smithʼs character pushed some critical “buttons”...
• by pressing her curiosity button, he engaged her
• by pressing her playfulness button, he initiated flirtation
• by sparking her imagination, he paved the way for her to become fascinated
Now, think back to the last time you were out at a bar talking to a woman. Do you think
that if you got her emotionally engaged, then got her flirting with you and feeling some
of those butterflies in her stomach, then managed to get her fascinated with you and
stimulated her imagination, youʼd be well on your way?
Iʼd say so.
Taking it two steps further, if you could push her safety button and create trust that
made her want to retreat to your arms, and then you finally pressed her arousal button
and cause desire that set her mind racing and her body on fire, sheʼd be yours.
And after countless of messages, thousands of interactions, and hundreds of women, I
found that by consistently pressing these key five “buttons,” I could take a woman from
zero, to my arms, in no time flat.
The even crazier part? I became so good at online game - at seeing which buttons I
needed to press, and when - that when I finally started going out again, I was able to
pick up women without a second thought. Every single interaction had these five things
happen in it.
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After internalizing this system, I know that if Iʼm out at the bar and I see a woman I want
to meet, itʼs no problem.
But I donʼt go out with the intention of doing pickup. Because honestly, doing it online is
like pickup on steroids. I can copy and paste one of my proven openers, shoot out
twenty messages in ten minutes, and push all five buttons within seven to ten messages
while Iʼm eating cereal or paying my bills.
By the time the date is set, sheʼs so excited to see me that itʼs as if I sent her walkie
talkies, a wetsuit, and two front-row tickets to “that thing she loves”.
All by delivering a predictable, controllable emotional experience. Five simple buttons,
and some copy/paste stuff from the years and years of material Iʼve perfected.
The best part? I have made so many truly amazing connections with incredible girls Iʼd
NEVER have met otherwise. I only choose to see the women who I connect with and
who I actually like, and it has completely leveled the playing field. By the time I decide
to meet up with a girl, I know that weʼre going to get along, have an awesome time, and
that sheʼs really into me.
Itʼs an absolute dating utopia... and everything that most men are actually looking for
when they decide to “get this handled.” You have more girls than you know what to do
with, with very little effort. You get easy access to the girls who are next-to-impossible
to approach at the bar, and whether you want casual fun, or a serious relationship, the
cards are stacked heavily in your favor.
What started as a small experiment one night in Vegas became something that has
taken me around the world (and let me instantly meet up with women wherever Iʼve
traveled), transformed the lives of countless men who read my first book, and spread
widely across the Internet.
End of story, right?
Well, hereʼs where things take a turn for the ironic...
When Window Shopping For Women got big, I started getting messages from a lot of
clients asking me about online dating sites. Match, Yahoo! Personals, Plenty of Fish,
etc. And as I was working on Window Shopping 2.0 - what I now call the Push Button
System - I thought it would make sense to broaden my horizons.
So when I signed up for my first real online dating site - and not a social networking site
like facebook or MySpace - I thought back to that fateful evening in the kitchen with
Kelly, and that thought that ran through my head... “isnʼt online dating for losers?”
Call me a loser if you want... Iʼm back from the mountaintop, and Iʼve got big news for
any man who is single.
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IF IT GOT MENTIONED ON SEX AND THE CITY, IT’S OK
Forget anything youʼve heard about this whole “online dating” thing. Forget the stigma,
and the idea that itʼs embarrassing or lame.
When you know how to play the game right, when youʼre one of the “top dogs” on an
online dating site, you literally get to hand-pick the hottest girls - the same girls who are
intimidating when theyʼre out on a Friday night with a mob of friends, done up like
perfect Barbie dolls, getting swarmed by drunk men who are all eager to take their shot.
And if you prefer hipsters or goth chicks or preppies, well, theyʼre hanging out online
too. 20,000 new members join Plenty of Fish per day (and the site got a shout out on
Sex and The City, so you know itʼs finally socially acceptable to women). I just checked
OKCupid - over 40,000 people are online at this moment. Attractive women are flocking
to these sites in droves, and with every passing month, the sites become more and
more socially acceptable.
So why do I love dedicated online dating sites so much?
1. The girls are pre-qualified.
You know theyʼre single and
looking for a good man, so itʼs
a matter of finding the quality
ones and working some of the
magic Iʼll show you.
2. Your competition is pretty
weak. Most guys have boring
profiles, lousy photos, and
their opener goes something
like “whatʼs up, you look hot,
holla back.” It doesnʼt take
much to stand out, and the
contrast between these guys,
and a cool guy, is striking to
the women receiving the
messages.
3. These girls are, shall we say...
sexually liberated. If thatʼs
your thing too, you should
probably know that 1 in 3 women who meet a guy online have sex on their first date.
Donʼt believe me? Just Google “online dating statistics” and look at the Huffington
Post article (it should be one of the first ones).
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4. If youʼre looking to settle down and find a wifey, the stats are in your favor, too. The
average time from meeting to marriage is 18 months - less than half that of the 42
months it takes couples who meet in the real world to get hitched.
5. Did I mention that these women are dying to meet a cool guy? Check out my inbox
from a two-day period on one of the paid sites:
Thatʼs ten new women in two days... who are all super-engaged, whoʼve read about me
and are interested in getting to know me better (and notice that four of them reached out
and wrote to me first). How are you going to get more efficient than that?
Not going out to clubs. Not with “day game”. Not through your social circle.
Oh and by the way, if youʼre into making a lot of female friends so you can go out to
clubs or have a nice big social circle, this is the easiest way possible to start. I know
that wherever in the world I want to visit, if I can find an online dating site or social
networking site, I can have a group of fun girls waiting to greet me when I get off the
plane.
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I hope none of this sounds like bragging. Itʼs just, as far as I see it and have
experienced it, the truth. And you can have it too.
WHAT HAPPENED IN VEGAS...
...led to more women than I could handle, which led to a blog, which led to a book,
which led to a phenomenon, which led to us this very report.
As I wrote this report, I was speaking with my buddy and business associate Christian.
We were both thinking... “wow, this is kind of excessive.” What if a guy just wants to
settle down with a nice girlfriend?
Well of course, thatʼs way more than possible - itʼs assured.
The system works so well, though, that Iʼve been having too much fun to settle down.
Thereʼs something so rewarding about meeting and attracting new women... and about
getting to know them, bringing them into your life, and having fun times with them.
The material Iʼve put together is like nothing else out there. It is based on thousands
and thousands of interactions, years and years of research, countless client case
studies, and five simple psychological ʻbuttonsʼ that you have to ʻpushʼ when youʼre
getting to know her.
Iʼve been working nonstop on the new Push Button System, and recently released it to a
beta group of fifty guys. On top of everything that Iʼd written into the system, I worked
closely with these fifty guys to ensure that they were able to repeat my successes -
predictably and consistently.
The results are in, and theyʼre awesome. Want to give it a try right now? Head over to
www.pushbuttondatingsystem.com/blog. The next step, and a ton more resources, are
waiting for you there. You can follow my step-by-step, copy/paste instructions and be
ready to start using my system in about twenty minutes (without paying a dime).
This is going to have a PROFOUND impact on your dating life: Way more choice. The
easiest way to “improve your skills”. Zero rejection. The confidence that comes from
knowing that a LOT of women want to see you and spend time with you.
And Iʼm going to walk you through it all so thereʼs no guesswork - youʼll be following
proven, tested strategies... and having a ton of fun. See you over there, my man.
- Race
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