from a girls blog.....
All in one Day
Posted June 4
June 4 2010, My life changed overnight: After 6 yrs of dating a guy 14 yrs younger than me, I finally moved in with him> Problem is he lives with his parents and rest of family. It didn't seem to work out from the beginning, they disapproved of me for whatever reason, they just didn't talk to me and I mean not even a "Good morning", but what do I care, I have my man, I work all day, come home late, I cried every now and then, but being with him was all that mattered. After 5 mo. it just got worse, and I was having a harder time dealing with it. Now he bought me a car, I can put up with it a little longer right. Well it's 7 mo. into it and I don't want to go home anymore, I start going to the bar after work instead of home. Watching the playoffs, no big deal, a few beers. This night I came home a little buzzed, brave enough to start %#&@$! with my sister in law, a fight broke out, I ended up beating on my brother in law who was in my face, and on my boyfriend for allowing his sister to pull my hair and not being able to defend myself cause he held me back. We got in the car and he starts crying, so I was hitting on him again. He got out cause I lost my cell phone in the scuffle, but he didn't make it back when the cops rolled up on me: I Went to Jail for DUI and Domestic Violence, served 10 days in LA County, My boyfriend breaks up with me over the phone, so now I got no home, no boyfriend, my license is suspended for 6 mo, no car, my employer fired me, so no job. Got to do 3 mo DUI school, 1 yr domestic violence school, pay a hell of fines, my auto ins. premiums will sky rocket. Al this in a metter of minutes. YES, I regret it, but it was coming, the part that hurts is that, he told me after all this, "I would never move out from my familys". And In my heart I guess I knew, just hoped he would change his mind. The phone break up wasn't good enough for me, I made him tell me to my face " It's over" and still WHY the hell My Heart just doesn't want to accept it. Oh and there is also a restraining order protecting him from me. My belongings are in storage. I finally got out of bed after 2 weeks of feeling sorry for myself. My background is Healthcare,going to be hard to get a job with my new found criminal record. As they say, THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON. even if it was just stupidity.
All in one Day
Posted June 4
June 4 2010, My life changed overnight: After 6 yrs of dating a guy 14 yrs younger than me, I finally moved in with him> Problem is he lives with his parents and rest of family. It didn't seem to work out from the beginning, they disapproved of me for whatever reason, they just didn't talk to me and I mean not even a "Good morning", but what do I care, I have my man, I work all day, come home late, I cried every now and then, but being with him was all that mattered. After 5 mo. it just got worse, and I was having a harder time dealing with it. Now he bought me a car, I can put up with it a little longer right. Well it's 7 mo. into it and I don't want to go home anymore, I start going to the bar after work instead of home. Watching the playoffs, no big deal, a few beers. This night I came home a little buzzed, brave enough to start %#&@$! with my sister in law, a fight broke out, I ended up beating on my brother in law who was in my face, and on my boyfriend for allowing his sister to pull my hair and not being able to defend myself cause he held me back. We got in the car and he starts crying, so I was hitting on him again. He got out cause I lost my cell phone in the scuffle, but he didn't make it back when the cops rolled up on me: I Went to Jail for DUI and Domestic Violence, served 10 days in LA County, My boyfriend breaks up with me over the phone, so now I got no home, no boyfriend, my license is suspended for 6 mo, no car, my employer fired me, so no job. Got to do 3 mo DUI school, 1 yr domestic violence school, pay a hell of fines, my auto ins. premiums will sky rocket. Al this in a metter of minutes. YES, I regret it, but it was coming, the part that hurts is that, he told me after all this, "I would never move out from my familys". And In my heart I guess I knew, just hoped he would change his mind. The phone break up wasn't good enough for me, I made him tell me to my face " It's over" and still WHY the hell My Heart just doesn't want to accept it. Oh and there is also a restraining order protecting him from me. My belongings are in storage. I finally got out of bed after 2 weeks of feeling sorry for myself. My background is Healthcare,going to be hard to get a job with my new found criminal record. As they say, THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON. even if it was just stupidity.
